Leave a Comment / By Julia admin / 6 July 2023
If you’re reading this, you surely have someone or something important in your life, but ultimately, you tend to think about yourself first. Bullseye, because it’s about you, as we are the most important. We constantly seek support and recognition, among family, friends, and acquaintances. Regardless of what we do, whether it’s our personal or professional life, what motivates us better than heartfelt praise? Of course, it’s not about forcing or artificially flattering, but that’s the kind of significance we expect. We love it when someone talks about us, and we feel great when we are genuinely appreciated. There’s probably no greater desire than unconditional sincere recognition. You know that feeling when you greet your dog. The dog unconditionally rejoices at the sight of you. Think about how you feel when someone smiles from ear to ear upon seeing you. We are interested in someone if they are interested in us. That’s how it works, but it’s all about what’s best for us. Similarly, when reading this, you expect benefits for yourself, not for me. You expect to learn something interesting that you can implement in your life, but unfortunately, I know as much about advice as I do about quantum physics and penguin anatomy Yes, we are selfish, and we constantly think about ourselves 
Speaking and listening. Think about how you feel when someone listens to you without interrupting with their own opinion. Paradoxically, the best conversationalists are those who speak the least because they listen to what you have to say. Surely, there have been times when you were listening to someone and thinking about when they would finish speaking, or you were just waiting to interject with your own thoughts because, after all, it’s about your opinion
It sits deep within us, and that’s human nature
And the feeling of uniqueness and importance rules the world
I also want to be important and appreciated. I feel that way when you read this because I know that my effort is not in vain, and this post brings mutual benefits. WarsztArt is my world, and I’m happiest not when I receive payment for a product or service, but when someone genuinely appreciates what I do. They see the effort and dedication I put into it because, after all, it’s a piece of my life. But who cares about that… We most enjoy talking to someone who doesn’t talk about themselves because someone else’s problems interest us as much as the average rainfall in Zimbabwe. Show interest in another person just as you want someone to be interested in you, but genuinely, and you’ll see how everything changes
Thank you for making it to the end. Leave a trace behind
When do you feel important? Do you like it when someone appreciates what you do?
Sincerely,
Maniek
WarsztART